Marriage is a matter decreed by Allah SWT. This is based on the Hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him) narrated by Abdullah bin Mas’ud:
إِنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ خَ خَ فِي بَطْنِ أَرْبَعِينَ يَوْمً يَوْمً عَ ذَ ذَ مِثْ ذَ ثُمَّ مِثْ مِثْ مِثْ ذَ ثُمَّ ا ا كَ كَ كَ وَيُقَ وَيُقَ كْتُبْ كْتُبْ كْتُبْ كْتُبْ وَأَجَ وَأَجَ وَأَجَ وَأَجَ وَأَجَ وَأَجَ وَشَقِيٌّ أَوْ سَعِيدٌ
It means, “Verily, each one of you will be collected in his mother’s womb for 40 days and then become a blood clot in the same time. Then in the same period became a lump of flesh. Then God sent an angel and was commanded (to the angel) in four sentences. It was said to the angels: Record his deeds, his sustenance, his death, is he happy or is he suffering…” Narrated by al-Bukhari (3208).
When choosing a partner, it is recommended that men choose based on these four things.
A woman is married for four years for her money, her beauty, her beauty and her children, so seek the same religion and you will grow up.
It means, “Women are married for four reasons; because of his wealth, his lineage, his beauty and his religion. So hold on to those who have religion. You will be happy.” Narrated by al-Bukhari (5090) & Muslim (3708).
If the woman already has all of the above, then what else? MEN’S REASON FOR THE BREAKDOWN?
Weekly Wanita contacted Syarie attorney Elie Shahana binti Embros of Mr. Wali Azri & Associates for insight into why seemingly perfect couples are breaking up.
Based on the cases he has led, this syarie lawyer explains that one of the cases commonly tried before the syarie judge is NO UNDERSTANDING.
“Many complaints say that they no longer communicate with their partner. This is one of the MOST POPULAR REASONS FOR DIVORCE among couples, even though they appear perfect in the eyes of society.
“Usually the syarie judge will ask how, from what point of view, but each of them gives a reason for the disagreement with the partner. If both agree, they will finally divorce.
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Reasons include financial problems.
“This usually happens with young couples where finances are the main reason for their breakup. There are many instances when the spouse earns a small salary and cannot meet the growing family expenses, especially with young children. There are times when only the man works and the woman does not. You may be able to accept it at first, but eventually, when there is often no money, you become rowdy and eventually break up.
Add that syariah lawyer back, another reason for divorce is family.
“Usually there is interference from the mother-in-law, mother-in-law and others. Not only from the male side, but also from the female family.
“There are cases in the early stages of marriage where the family likes and approves of the relationship. But over time, they began to see each other’s streaks and began teasing their kids for not liking their partner. At some point, most people get divorced.
“Another cause is internal problems. There are couples who are not satisfied with intimate relationships with their partners and ultimately decide to divorce because they do not want to endure the sin of an outside relationship.
Elie Shahana added that cheating can also be the reason for the breakup.
“In this case, sometimes both parties, both men and women, have additional partners. This scam affects not only men but also women.
“Another reason for divorce is not being good to your partner. It’s just that there’s another reason for strife in the household than an unwillingness to make up. Many cases of women who are not willing to have a third person in their relationship.
“There are also cases of political differences where the husband likes another party and the wife supports another party and this will often cause them to quarrel so that some cases will be referred to the religious office and eventually divorced ” he said, sharing that there There are many other simple problems like drug problems, teeth, towels and more.
No matter what, take care of our soulmate before someone else takes care of it.
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